Saturday, January 29, 2011

King For A Day....(or five)...Our First Hospital Visit

Finally a little time to sit down and document our first trip to the hospital.

Our little Kaden man gave us quite the scare.  Kaden started getting sick a couple of weeks ago, which just started out as a cough. He really only had a cough for a couple of days and then he seemed to be getting better. Then the weekend of the 15th and 16th, his cough was returning. Monday, the 17th, I got a call at work from daycare saying that she was a little concerned with how Kaden was breathing. She said he was coughing a lot, was fussier than normal, and his breathing didn't seem quite right. She left a message on my phone and I right away called the doctor. We were able to get him into Sioux Falls yet that afternoon. When we got there, she could right away tell that he was "grunting" and that was of big concern to her. He was VERY crabby while in the office. They did some blood work, had a chest xray done, tested him for RSV, and gave him a nebulizer treatment in the office. After looking at the x-ray quickly, they could tell that he had the start of pneumonia. They sent us home with a nebulizer machine and some antibiotics and told us to call in the morning with a report of how he was doing. That evening, I packed up a couple bags with our necessities, because I wouldn't have been one bit surprised if we needed to make an emergency trip back over to Sioux Falls.

Kaden had a pretty rough night that night and scared mom and dad more than once. He just seemed to be having soo much trouble breathing. He was refusing his bottle and what he did take, he ended up throwing back up. We put him in his car seat to sleep for the night with the humidifier right over top of him. I put his car seat right next to my bed, so I could keep my hand close to make sure he was still breathing! None of us slept very well that night....except for Kenley girl, which was really a blessing.  Tuesday the 18th our daycare was closed, so we were already planning on having grandma Deb come over and watch the kids. On any normal day, I most certainly would have never went to work with the way Kaden was feeling. However, we had Preschool Screenings that day and I couldn't leave everyone short-handed. I was just glad he could stay in the house and get some extra grandma-love that day. The doctor actually called me at work on Tuesday morning to get an update and to let us know that his RSV panels all came back negative. I told him, that even after several nebulizer treatments, he still appeared to be struggling to breathe and he didn't appear ANY better than the day before. He told me that we definitely needed to bring him back in and made us an appointment for an hour and a half later. I rushed home, Cody rushed home, grabbed our bags and packed up a few last minute things, and headed out the door. We put Kenley's car seat base in grandma's vehicle and she just took Kenley home with her. We were so thankful she was able to do that!!

When we got to the doctor's office Kaden still looked pretty pathetic. The dr. took a thorough history of the last couple days and did a complete exam. Kaden's respirations were high and his oxygen levels were lower than what they wanted to see. He was also very dehydrated. We were informed that he should probably be admitted to the hospital to be given some IV fluids, oxygen support, and take a look at his lungs. Broke mommy's heart. We were pretty sure that's what he was going to say when we walked in there, but it still wasn't something I wanted to hear. He wrote up his orders and we were on our way over to "The Castle" ~ Sanford Children's hospital.

Kaden was admitted with "respiratory distress." When we got checked into the hospital, his respirations were even higher than when we were in the office and the nurse was pretty worried about him. We got things situated and then they took him from me to go to the procedure room to start an IV. Now, I could have gone along, however they recommended I didn't if I don't care for blood.....so needless to say, I stayed back in his room. BUT, I could hear him nonetheless. We were both crying now. It took a of couple attempts to get the IV started and because he was dehydrated, his blood ran like syrup and clotted very easily, so it was difficult to get the lab work they needed. Once back to his room, they wheeled us down to have a chest xray done. As they are wheeling us through the hallways the nurses are trying to prepare me for what the "contraption" they are going to have to put him in will look like and what they are going to do with Kaden to get the xray done. I don't think they could have ever prepared me enough for the sight of that. This "thing" looked like a medieval torture device!

**This is a picture I found on the internet. I must point out that this kid is much bigger than Kaden and it certainly fails to show his tiny little feet flailing around as they hang out the bottom and the horrified scream we had to endure.



The nurses were well prepared though and the process went rather quickly.

The xray showed a viral bronchitis and they could actually see little pockets of Kaden's lungs that had collapsed, which was why he was having so much trouble breathing. They started him on steroids and he received nebulizer treatments every 4 hours around the clock (I will also let you know that he screamed during 95% of them!) Even with the nebs, he was continuing to require much oxygen support. When he was sleeping, his oxygen saturation levels would dip into the 70 and 80% when they wanted to see him at least above 92%.

They tested a second time for RSV, which again came back negative.  It seemed like nobody believed it. The doctors, nurses, respiratory therapists...they all kept saying "he sure sounds like an RSV kid." After 3 days on oxygen without showing any improvement, they decided to do another xray. The doctor at this time was actually looking for a collapsed lung. He said that could happen, especially with the small pockets he first presented with. This xray did come back showing improvement from the initial one, so that was excellent news for us to hear. Even though he didn't sound like he was getting better, he actually was. The doctor told us that we just needed to be patient and wait him out. The steroids however made our little man crazy! He screamed and screamed and screamed and screamed and screamed!!  It made for some very long days. The nurses told us that the steroids were probably causing him to feel like he wanted to crawl out of his skin and he has no way to express that to us. We felt so bad for him, but it was a trying time for mom and dad too.

Finally on Friday night, (after the doctor told us we probably wouldn't be able to leave until Monday at the earliest) Kaden must have decided he was ready to breathe on his own. He went on room air at midnight and his oxygen levels remained at the appropriate levels through the remainder of the night and into the morning. With the way he was requiring oxygen just the day before, nobody could believe that he was now on room air, just out of the blue. The doctor visited with us that morning and told us that we were in that "iffy" stage. Should he send us home or should he stay and be monitored for another 24 hours?? He left the choice up to us...we decided it was time to come home.

They sent us home on an oral steroid that he continued for 3 days. Thank the Lord we are done with that...we're hoping to see some improvement with the screaming. He also is to continue with the neb treatments 4 times a day for 30 days. He's still screaming through those though :(

We are very much looking forward to having our happy little baby boy back!!

I'll leave you with some pictures:

Ready To Go Home!!!



We also want to say a huge THANK YOU to grandma Deb, as she was able to keep Kenley for us the entire time we were in the hospital. What a blessing!!  We knew she was being well taken care of and didn't have to worry about her at all. We missed her like crazy, but it made our time away from her a little easier. We can never thank you enough~ love you!!

Saturday, January 1, 2011

A Look Back...

This isn't going to be the "look back" that you are probably thinking as we bring in the new year. I'm not going to take you through the whole year of 2010. However, because 2010 will forever be a special year as it was the year we brought Kaden and Kenley into our lives, I am taking you on a "look back" tour of the journey of becoming a family. I thought about doing this on their 1st birthday, but let's not kid ourselves, I more than likely won't have the time that I have now and the blog will probably be filled with more exciting things from that day. Although the journey actually started in 2008 (or even a couple of years earlier if you want to get technical) our lives forever changed, smack-dab in the middle of 2010.
Here's where it all started:

* Cody/Holli initial infertility visit: September 23, 2008
     *Cody Semen Analysis: September 23, 2008
     *Holli Lab Work: September 23, 2008
     **Action: October 2008: Cody Vitamin C 1000mg
         Vitamin E 400IU
          Fertility Blend Vitamin
          Recheck Semen Analysis ~8 weeks

*Cody 2nd Semen Analysis: December 8, 2008
     **RESULTS: Low sperm count
     **Action: Appointment with Dr. Hansen January 6th, 2009
                    -Discuss option of doing IVF with ICSI
                    -Cody appointment with Urologist

*Cody lab work/hormone levels: January 15, 2009
     **RESULTS: OK, testosterone levels slightly below avg.

*Cody Urologist: January 27, 2009
     **RESULTS: Normal

*Cody/Holli office visit, Dr. Hansen: March 9, 2009
     -discuss IVF and other options
       **Action: Cody hormone injections M/W/F
                               -Novarel 2mls
     -Recheck labs in one month
     -Recheck Semen Analysis in two months
     -Goal: increase amount of semen produced
              -possibility of artificial insemination

*Cody lab work/hormone levels: April 7, 2009
     **RESULTS: bloodwork: #199-749 (good, injections doing what they are supposed to be doing)
     **Action: Cody continue hormone injections M/W/F
                    -Recheck Semen Analysis in 6-8 weeks


*Cody/Holli office visit, Dr. Hansen: June 8, 2009
     -discuss results of semen analysis and injections
      **RESULTS: Testosterone (blood) improved
                            Sperm count continues to be low
     -Decision to try IUI

*Cody/Holli IUI #1:
     **Holli Clomid (100mg) June 10-14
     **hCG injection
     **IUI June 20, 2009 (8am)
     **Fresh Sperm
     **RESULTS: (P. Test July 4, 2009)
                           Negative: cycle day 1: 7/4/09


*Cody/Holli IUI #2:
     **Holli Clomid (100mg) July 6-10
     **hCG injection
     **IUI July 20, 2009 (9am)
     **Fresh Sperm
     **RESULTS: (P. Test August 3, 2009)
                            Negative: cycle day 1: 8/4/09

*Cody/Holli IUI #3:
     **Holli Clomid (150mg) August 7-11
     **hCG injection
     **IUI August 20, 2009 (10am)
     **Fresh Sperm
     **RESULTS: (P. Test September 3, 2009)
                           Negative: cycle day 1: 9/5/09

*Cody/Holli office visit, Dr. Hansen: September 29,2009
     -Discuss IVF

*Cody/Holli IVF #1:
     **Holli cycle day 1: 9/5/09
     **Holli birth control: 9/8/09-9/28/09
     **Cody/Holli appointments: 9/23/09
            *Cody Labs
            *Cody sperm collection
            *Holli Labs
            *Holli Saline Sonogram: NORMAL
            *Injection Training

     **Holli: Lupron injection started 10/24/09
                 Bravelle and Menopur injections
                 hCG injection
                 Doxycycline (oral antibiotic)
                 Progesterone in Oil injections
                 Vivelle Patch


     **Egg Retrieval: 11/18/09
                   Eggs Retrieved: 12
                   Eggs ICSI: 10
                   Eggs Fertilized: 6


     **Embryo Transfer (day 5): 11/23/09
                                                Transferred: 2 embryos
                                                Froze: 2 embryos

     **Pregnancy Test: 12/4/09
         **POSITIVE
             **Due Date: August 11, 2010

**First Ultrasound: 12/23/2010
     **TWINS















Friday, December 31, 2010

We want to wish everyone a very Happy New Year! Tonight we spent the night at home just the four of us. Of course we didn't make it until midnight, but the night was perfect anway.

2010 was filled with tons of excitement...the greatest joy being that the Lord blessed us with our two little miracles. We have been beyond blessed this year. Thank you for being a part of it. We are ready for what 2011 has to offer.

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Our First Christmas Is Coming To An End

Well, it's Wednesday today and it's time to put an end to all the festivities. We have been at my mom and dad's since last Friday and have been enjoying every minute of our break. We celebrated Christmas Eve morning at Grandma Deb's house and then that evening we went to church in Slayton and had Christmas with Great-Grandma Finke. We actually had no plans for Christmas day. Daddy went snowmobiling for the day so the rest of us just stayed in the house and did some baking and getting ready for when Kris, Josh and Khloe came later that evening. We celebrated Christmas with my family on Sunday and we have all been hanging out since. Now today, my parents are headed to Arizona, Kris is heading back to Des Moines, and we are headed back to Brewster....we've missed daddy this week :)

Christmas was absolutely fantastic this year looking at it through the eyes of our chidlren. I know they are too young to remember any of this or to really get anything out of it, but for us, it was priceless. Last year my sister was pregnant and we surprised everyone with the news that we were expecting TWO babies. We were all soo looking forward to this Christmas to enjoy the miracle of three beautiful babies. So very different than last year. Of course it all went way too fast and now we are left with going home, unpacking, putting things away, and finding space for all of the wonderful things we were spoiled with this year. But, we loved spending time with family and we can't thank our parents enough for for everything they've done for us this past week.






**I also wanted to let everyone know that Cody's nurse called him yesterday. The Dr. showed his scans to the neurosurgeons who all felt very comfortable with waiting the two months for his next MRI. They didn't say anything about what they thought this "spot" might be, just that they felt comfortable with him coming back in two months. They gave him the option of having the next scan done in Sioux Falls or to go back to Rochester to have it done. We've both talked about it and feel having this next one done here would be just fine. The Dr. did feel though, that if there was change on his next scan, that they would recommend we go back to Rochester to have them look at it. We are very comfortable with this plan. As for now, we don't feel it's necessary to go back up there unless needed. So we will wait and see what this next MRI brings. For now though, the nurse will schedule it for sometime in February and let us know.

Thursday, December 23, 2010

5 months

The biggest event here that's been taking place the last couple of days is that Kenley is scooting....backwards!!  It's such a hoot to watch her. She's got the rolling over down pretty good. Everytime you put her on her back she's flipping on to her tummy. Which, is fun to watch, except after she's just eaten. That is definitely not a good thing for such a puker :)  But once she is on her tummy she starts pushing herself and ends up going backwards. And when she gets mad, she gets going pretty good! We can't take our eyes off of her for more than a couple of minutes or she's got herself into some unwanted predicament. She's been trapped under the swing, gotten herself under the Christmas tree and even scooted herself into the kitchen.

(now she's really mad!)


Thursday, December 16, 2010

Yucky Day

Whew, what a busy day! 

Both kids have been sick the last couple of weeks with colds...snotty noses, coughs, and an ear infection for Kenley. She was put on an antibiotic and seems to be getting better. Kaden on the other hand is still hanging on to the nasties. He has been so crabby, which is completely not normal for him. I made another appointment for him today just to make sure there wasn't something going on that we were missing. They couldn't get a good look in his ears, apparently he was a little waxy. So they came in and flushed his ears out, which was not one of his favorite things. But after they were cleared, they looked good, which made me feel better because I was sure it was going to be an ear infection for him too. Because he's had a cough for so long they also wanted to check his white blood count. A prick in the heel was also not a highlight of his day. All in all, they think that he could have walking pneumonia. They're not sure and they could do more tests, but they didn't want to subject him to that. So they gave him a prescription of Zithromax, and if it is pneumonia then this should kick it in the butt.

We didn't get in to Kaden's appointment right away which made Cody think he was going to be late for his MRI. He left Kaden's appt. and walked 4 blocks to make sure he got there on time while I finished with Kaden. When he came out of his MRI he looked pretty rough. His face was red, swollen, and blotchy. I thought that maybe he had fallen asleep, but he looked at me and said "I almost died in there!"  Apparently he had a pretty bad allergic reaction to the injection of contrast. He instantly started sneezing, which he described as someone shaking pepper in his face and then he started to cough. When they slid him back into the machine, he said his nose had completely closed up and his chest was starting to get tight too.  He was really struggling to breathe. Even when he was finished, for about an hour, he was wheezing and very out of breath. He had me really worried! He was showing improvement but all day he would easily feel out of breath.

Now on to the results. Cody's MRI report stated that there was no new tumor growth, HOWEVER, it was showing an area of increased intensity. There was something showing up as a bright white spot. Of course, they weren't exactly sure what it was, but didn't feel it would be best practice to let it go for another 6 months, especially with his history. They want to see him back in 2 months instead. He explained that it could possibly be some swelling or maybe even scar tissue. Cody asked if it could be tumor and of course that's always a possibility, but they just "don't know." He explained to us that Cody's type of cancer, if it were to come back, typically comes back between two and three years. So he of course thinks it's a positive that he is 5-6 years out. The dr. was going to talk to the radiologist and also the neurosurgeons and get their opinions. If they felt it was something that needs to be addressed sooner, they will let us know. But for now, we wait for another two months. UGH!!

A lot of emotions today and a lot of "unsure-ness". Cody doesn't really know what to think. He told me he wasn't surprised because he said he's "just not that lucky."  I told him that it's really not about luck and we will continue to get our strength from the Lord. Even though these days are always a little difficult, we both feel that it brings the two of us closer together. We are so very thankful for what we do have.

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Really, Already???

Here we are again. It's time for Cody's 6 month check up. I know I say this every time, but it simply amazes me how the time passes us by. Last time he had his appointment, I was waddling down the hallways and about ready to pop. This time we are excited to bring pictures of the kids to show off. Cody has a pretty special lab nurse that has done his labs from the very beginning. Even through all of the years, she has been the one to draw his blood every single time. Cody has never been shy around her and he can get rather sarcastic, but she's always right there to dish it back. So anyway, we know she'll be excited to see baby pictures :)

His MRI is scheduled for 11:30 and then we don't see the doctor until 4:00 in the afternoon. Hopefully we'll get some last minute Christmas shopping done in between!

We can't thank you enough for all of your continued thoughts and prayers. We know Cody is often in your prayers but it's always nice for a few extra around this time. We love you all!

Saturday, December 11, 2010

Yummy Cereal

Cody brought up the highchairs from the basement and put them together today for our first attempt at eating cereal. It actually didn't go too bad. We tried Kenley first and she did fantastic. She was very helpful to mommy as she would grab the spoon and try to feed herself. She loved every bit of it. Her first taste she was a little unsure of, but after that she was wide mouthed for more! She munched it right up, finishing her whole bowl. I expected nothing less from our little (or should I say big) Kenley girl.  Kaden didn't seem to mind the cereal, but he wasn't quite sure how this was supposed to work. We gave him a few bites but he just didn't know what to do with it. So we'll keep working at it. Here are a few pictures of our first day in highchairs!